Etiquette & Customs in Pakistan

Meeting and Greeting
. Greetings are therefore often between members of the same sex; however, when dealing with people in the middle class, greetings may be across sex lines. . Men shake hands with each other. Once a relationship is developed, they may hug as well as shake hands. . Women generally hug and kiss. Pakistanis take their time during greetings and ask about the person's health, family, and business success. . Pakistani names often include a name that denotes a person's class, tribe, occupation, or other status indicator. . They may also include two names that have a specific meaning when used together, and the meaning is lost if the names are separated. . It is best to ask a person how they wish to be addressed. . In general, this is not a culture where first names are commonly used, except among close friends.
Gift Giving Etiquette
. If invited to a Pakistani's home, bring the hostess a small gift such as flowers or good quality chocolates.. Men should avoid giving flowers to women.. Do not give white flowers as they are used at weddings.. If a man must give a gift to a woman, he should say that it is from his wife, mother, sister, or some other female relative.. Do not give alcohol.. Gifts are not opened when received. . Gifts are given with two hands.
Dining Etiquette
. If invited to a home you will most likely have to remove your shoes. Check to see if the host is wearing shoes. If not, remove yours at the door. . Dress conservatively. . Arrive approximately 15 minutes later than the stipulated time when invited to dinner or a small gathering. . You may arrive up to one hour later than the stipulated time when invited to a party. . Show respect for the elders by greeting them first. . In more rural areas, it is still common to eat meals from a knee-high round table while sitting on the floor. . Many people in urban areas do not use eating utensils, although more westernized families do. . When in doubt, watch what others are doing and emulate their behaviour.. Guests are served first. Then the oldest, continuing in some rough approximation of age order until the youngest is served. . Do not start eating until the oldest person at the table begins. . You will be urged to take second and even third helpings. Saying "I'm full" will be taken as a polite gesture and not accepted at face value. . Eat only with the right hand.